Wedding

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A  'wedding ' is a civil or religious ceremony at which the beginning of a marriage is celebrated.

Customs

General customs

Wedding ceremonies may contain any number of different elements, however most contain wedding vows of some kind and a proclamation of marriage, usually by the officiant. Other elements may include music, poetry, prayer, scripture, or other traditions. In most societies a number of wedding traditions or customs have emerged around the wedding ceremony, many of which have lost their original symbolic meaning in the modern world. Other wedding traditions are relatively recent. Some elements of the Western wedding ceremony symbolize the bride's departure from her father's control and entry into a new family with her husband. In modern Western weddings, this symbolism is largely vestigial, since husband and wife are of equal power and status. Recently in some cultures, same-sex marriage weddings have begun to be celebrated. The Western custom of the bride wearing a white wedding dress, came to symbolize purity in the Victorian era (despite popular misconception and the hackneyed jokes of situation comedies the white dress did not actually indicate virgin, which was symbolized by a face veil). Within the "white wedding" tradition, a white dress and veil would not have been considered appropriate in the second or third wedding of a widow or divorcee. The specific conventions of Western weddings largely from a Protestant and Catholic viewpoint, are discussed at "White wedding." Weddings in modern China combine both traditional elements and elements influenced by the West. The actual civil ceremony consists of registering the marriage with the local registrar is brief and done without much ceremony. The wedding reception, however, is elaborate and complex. The one prominent element of modern Chinese weddings is the Chinese wedding album. A wedding is often followed or accompanied by a wedding reception, at which an elaborate wedding cake is served. Western traditions include toast (honor)ing the bride and bridegroom, the newlyweds having the first dance, and cutting the cake. The bride throws her bouquet to the assembled group of all unmarried women in attendance, and the woman who catches it is supposedly going to be the next to wed. A fairly recent egalitarian equivalent has the groom throwing the bride's Garter (clothing) to the assembled unmarried men; the man who catches it is supposedly the next to wed. Customs vary and in multicultural ceremonies. The customs may be varied, mixed or totally created to suit the personalities and interests of the couple. Again, such ceremonies are more common when performed by Civil Celebrants, as in Australia. A long-standing modern tradition is for brides to wear or carry "something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue" during the service. It is considered good luck to do so. Often times the bride attempts to have one item that meets all of these qualifications, such as a borrowed blue handerchief which is "new to her" but loaned by her grandmother (thus making it old.)

French customs

Many times in smaller French towns, the groom will meet his fiancée at her home on the day of the wedding and escort her to the chapel where the ceremony is being held. As the couple proceeds to the chapel, children will stretch long white ribbons across the road which the bride will cut as she passes. At the chapel, the bride and groom are seated on two red velvet chairs underneath a silk canopy they called a  carre . Laurel leaves may be scattered across their paths when they exit the chapel. Sometimes small coins are also tossed for the children to gather. At the reception, the couple customarily uses a toasting cup, called a  Coupe de Marriage . The origin of giving toast actually began in France, when they literally dropped a small piece of toast into the couple's wine (to ensure a healthy life). They lifted their glass to "a toast", as is common in Western culture today. Some couples choose to serve a croquembouche instead of a wedding cake. The dessert is a pyramid of crème-filled pastry puffs, drizzled with a caramel glaze. At a more boisterous wedding, tradition involves continuing the celebration until very late at night. After the wedding reception, those invited to the wedding will gather outside the newlyweds' window and bang pots and pans. They are then invited into the house for some more drinks in the couple's honor, after which the couple is finally allowed to be alone for their first night together as husband and wife. Another practice that is becoming more common at wedding celebrations is "beheading" a bottle of Champagne (beverage) with a sabre made for the occasion. It was started as a way for the Hussards (under Napoleon's command) to celebrate victories and exhibit their horseback skills: they would "behead" the top off a bottle of champagne while on horseback.  Legend  has it that the skilled horsemen would ride at a full gallop while brave women held up bottles of champagne. The sabre must strike the neck of the bottle at exactly the right angle (champagne bottles have over 100 pounds of pressure per square inch). This practice spread throughout France as a way to celebrate special occasions. Now decorative replicas of these special sabres can be purches from artisans in Thiers, France (the French capital of cutlery).

Music

Western weddings

Music often played at western weddings includes:

• The "Bridal Chorus" from  Lohengrin (opera)  by Richard Wagner, often used as the processional and commonly known as "Here Comes the Bride" - Note: Richard Wagner is said to have been Anti-Semitic, and as a result, the Bridal Chorus is often not used at Jewish weddings.
• Johann Pachelbel's Pachelbel's canon is often used as an alternative processional.
• The "Wedding March (Mendelssohn)" from Felix Mendelssohn's incidental music for the William Shakespeare play,  A Midsummer Night's Dream , often used as a recessional.
• The "Toccata" from Charles-Marie Widor's  Symphony for Organ No. 5 , also used as a recessional.
• Segments of the Ode To Joy, the fourth movement of Ludwig van Beethoven's Ninth Symphony, sometimes make appearances at weddings; its message of unity is suitable for the occasion.

Variants

A  'double wedding ' is a single ceremony where two fiancee couples rendezvous for two separate weddings. Typically, a fiancee with a sibling might plan a double wedding with that sibling

See also

Events related to weddings

• Betrothal
• Engagement and Engagement ring
• Banns of marriage
• Wedding reception
• Wedding anniversary
• Prenuptial agreement

Types of weddings

• Handfasting
• Religious aspects of marriage
• Online wedding
• Same-sex marriage

Wedding traditions

• Marriage license
• Wedding band
• Wedding gift
• Wedding invitation
• Wedding music
• Wedding vows
• Wedding trends

Clothing

• Barong Tagalog
• Kimono
• Morning dress
• Topor (headgear)
• Tuxedo
• Black tie (Dinner Jacket in the U.K.)
• white tie (Evening dress in the U.K.)
• Sherwani
• Wedding veil
• Wedding dress

Food

• Wedding cake

Participants

• Best man
• Bridesmaid
• Flowergirl
• Maid of honor
• Ringbearer
• Usher or groomsman

Related travel

• Honeymoon
• Wedding trip (traveling to meet a bride or groom in an arranged marriage)

Other

• Wedding videography
• Wedding photography
  
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